I am a 38-year-old married man with an active sex life with my wife. I immigrated to Canada around six years ago. My wife is really hot, with a curvy body and a juicy ass. Our marriage was arranged, and maybe that’s why our libidos and comfort levels during sex never matched.

I have a high libido, while hers is below average. This is a point of frustration for me, but what ticked me off even more was her lack of participation whenever we had sex. She would just lie there while I gave her all the foreplay, went down on her, turned her around, and fucked her doggy style (always).

She never took the initiative or even hugged or kissed me. So, you can imagine that my wife has never given me a hand job or a blowjob; in fact, she doesn’t even look at my penis. Also, once we were finished, she would act as though we had done something dirty and wouldn’t let me hug her.

I have tried talking to her about this and how I would like her to be more involved during sex. I also let her know that I would like to get a blowjob from her or at least a hand job. But every time I bring it up, she gets upset and starts crying about how she isn’t good enough for me and that’s probably why I had an extramarital affair before (that’s a story for another time).

So now, I have stopped asking for this to keep peace in the family. But my frustration and libido are not going anywhere.

This story is about how I had hot, steamy sex with my wife’s friend. She was my wife’s batchmate from college back in India. Her name was Divya (changed for privacy). When I landed in Canada in the winter of 2019, she was the one who picked me up from the airport.